Friday, November 7, 2008

I am not sure what kind of life I will have outside of the group home. See I have been in-group homes so long I am afraid to talk young ladies especially if they are the slightest bit attractive, and even the ones that I don’t really find attractive. I guess the reason is because I have been around guys for the past several years of my life. So I guess I have turned shy in front of females my age. I mean don’t get me wrong I like some of the young ladies my age but I am afraid of saying/doing something dumb. I am very self-conscience and I don’t deal with rejection or embarrassment very well. I guess I have always been shy because I have never really had a girlfriend, and it was because I never really could act socially acceptable around girls. I would either say or do the wrong thing. I never really had friends who were girls either I just need to gain more guts.

James

6 comments:

Anonymous said...

hey man you know you're a really cool guy and you just gotta speak your mind. just try and try again cuz if you fail than who cares obviously their not worth your time. you gotta try because we learn from our mistakes and when we fall we just gotta pick ourselves up again and try harder the next time! you really are a cool guy and can get a cool girl too bro. you just gotta keep your chin up and keep on trying. even when you think you never wanna move on you gotta otherwise you're just waisting your life away! stay up man!

alex

Anonymous said...

try not to be as shy... just keep your head up and keep on goin for it.. you wont be in a group home forever... you are getting out hopefully soon. you can't wait forever.. forever is getting smaller and smaller... keep your head up buddy.


-Kelsee

Anonymous said...

Don't seek approval. If you tell yourself that your life is a certian way it will be that way-regan

Anonymous said...

if you need help talking to girls just let me know. maybe i could help you.

Anonymous said...

i don't know how it is to be in a group home but i do know how you fill on talking to girls because i'm shy too and you can ask any one that but i think you can do better then i can so just be your self good luck in life

-joshua

Anonymous said...

Ladies thats a funny word bro but if you need help at all with this we live together so keep talking to me and i will help you as much as i can.

Mark